3 questions to sample and savor.

Relationships can be complex, so let’s keep this simple. We’ve chosen three questions and included pages from both the Personal and Shared Guidebooks. While the two guidebooks share all the same questions, they have different sets of prompts. In this free offering, you will get at taste of what it is like to do the Personal Guidebook on your own and the Shared Guidebook with a partner.

Use our suggestions to navigate or find your own way. We are excited to hear how it goes!


HOW TO USE IT:

Each page is a journey. Each question is laid out as a two page spread. The top left corner is where it begins, with the primary evocative question. 

The prompts are sprinkled across the pages. You can answer them in any order that pleases you. There may be a prompt that doesn’t resonate. No worries. Skip it. 

Save “What’s Rising Up?”, on the bottom right of the second page, for the end of your journey. What has become clear during this journey? Is there an action you want to take? A behavior you want to look at more closely? What is the part you want to play now?

WAYS TO USE IT:

Self Study  Do it on your own.

The Buddy System Find a partner and share.

Cross the Divide Reconnect with family members or friends who are far away in location or perspective.

Groups Bring this journal to already established groups, congregations, schools, work groups, board rooms, trainings, spiritual groups, or start a group in your living room.

(For guidance with groups, download our Group Process & Facilitation Guides.)